#18 — 1st February: Wounds Heal Fast
@Square Diner, Franklin Street
We spent an hour at lunch discussing our crash and burn from yesterday, brooding and doing a postmortem of the meeting.
We agreed that in future we should probably not argue incessantly with the person whom we wanted to write us a big cheque, and certainly not when it was really a philosophical debate.
Then we kept telling ourselves that it was a great lesson to learn; early on.
The fact that we had to eat humble pie the first time out of the practice ring, we expected would keep us firmly rooted in reality in the future. And make us stronger and more determined to prove the man wrong - by succeeding.
The truth is that we say these things to make ourselves feel better every day.
In this instance, when you embark down the path we had chosen, you must have near blind faith and belief in both your idea and your unique ability to deliver it.
But at the same time you must be receptive to good advice and be willing ot learn, adapt and pivot along the way to make your idea better.
It is a delicate and thick-skinned balance once must find to between reality and the pursuit of a dream.
Then we told ourselves that it was a great lesson to learn; early on.
P.S. Here’s an index of all the articles in this series:
- Prologue: The Little Startup that Wasn’t…
- #1–1st December, 2010: An Idea is Born!
- # 2–6th December: Pitch Gestation Process
- #3–20th December: First Pitch Walk-Through
- #4–7th January, 2011: The Internal Pitch
- #5–12th January: External Gut Check
- # 6–16th January: SocialSOS Dry Run with Venture Capitalist
- #7–19th January: Introduction to prominent NYC Angel Investor
- #8–20th January: Pitch Dry Run
- #9–21st January: Agony of the Wait
- #10–22nd January: Not so Instant Gratification!
- #11–26th January: The Shanghai Connection…
- #12–28th January: The Light and the Darkness
- #13–28th January: Show me the Money!
- #14–29th January: One Final Hurrah!
- #15–30th January: Dry Run
- #16–31st January: Dream Pitch Meeting
- #17–31st January: Pitch Reality
- #18–1st February: Young Wounds Heal Quickly…
- #19–16th February: Mr. Independent
- #20–22nd February: Riding High with Greylock Partners
- #21–23rd February: Time is Money at Greylock Partners
- #22–24th February: Mr. Independent’s IT Crowd
- #23–9th March: College Hustle
- #24–14th March: Intro to Mr. Y at N Ventures
- #25–15th March: The Connector
- #26–18th March: Pitch to Mr. Skype
- #27–19th March: On a Wing and a Prayer
- #28 — April 5th: End of the Beginning
- Epilogue: The Little Startup that Wasn’t…